A Victim Of Romance
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Romance scams are lucrative and easy to commit. In addition, they often allow a perpetrator to remain anonymous while committing their crimes. While romance scams can happen to anyone, women account for 63% of romance scam victims. The average age for romance fraud victims is around 50 years old. Romance scams will cost you; Do a reverse image search of the person’ profile picture to see if it’s associated with another name or with details that don’t match up – those are signs of a scam. How to Report a Romance Scam. If you paid a romance scammer with a gift card, contact the company that issued the card right away.
*A Victim Of Romance Cast
*A Victim Of Romance Stories
*British victims of ‘romance fraud’ lost over £50million last year, findings from Action Fraud warn as Valentine’s Day approaches. In 2018, the average sum of money lost by a victim of romance fraud came in at £11,145, marking a 27 per cent increase on the year before.
*The Title is Victim Of Romance. Victim Of Romance. The item format is a vinyl 12’. Vinyl records are released in many editions and variations, such as standard edition, re-issue, demonstration demo, not for sale, promotional promo, special edition, limited edition, and many other editions and versions.
*Romance scams target victims, who may be emotionally vulnerable, with companionship and friendship. The goal of the criminal(s) perpetrating the crime is to get the victim to send them funds, which they claim are for a wide range of necessities such as travel, medical care, or a business opportunity.
It all starts out innocently enough. A man reaches out online through private messaging or the dating app you’re on. He seems to say and do all the right things. Everything seems perfect. And you fall for him. Hard.
It happens all the time. There’s rarely a day that goes by when someone isn’t reaching out to me about the amazing person they met online.
In the cases I deal with, the man is impersonating a soldier in the U.S. military. Seeing a very attractive soldier reaching out to establish a connection seems to easily make people trust the situation. After all, who is more honorable than someone who has chosen to serve his country?
Soon enough, he’s requesting monetary funds in one way or another. Sometimes it will start out very innocently such as asking for an iTunes card. Other times, they go straight for the ultimate prize and ask for thousands of dollars to return home from a deployment.
The truth is that in almost all of the cases I’ve worked with, the women had alarm bells going off. Something just didn’t seem quite right. Some stopped the conversation with the “soldier” and reached out to me. Case closed very quickly at that point.
Sadly, in many of the women who have come to me for help, they have already sent thousands of dollars to this man and, in a few cases, tens of thousands of dollars.
Women have told me they have been left with nothing as they turned their life savings over to this man who was making grand promises of a fairytale life together if she could just help him get back home.
If you’re in that situation or know someone else who is, read on for the action steps to take now.
One quick note before we dive in, it’s not just women who are victims of the scams. There are female scammers and male victims, as well as same-sex scams. There is no discrimination when it comes to scams parting you with your hard-earned money.Realize You Aren’t Alone
When people reach out to me, they’re not only heartbroken but also incredibly disappointed in themselves that they fell victim to a scammer.
I have worked with thousands of people since I wrote my first article on scammers impersonating soldiers and I would venture to guess that’s a small percentage of the ones who are actually out there.
In fact, many of the scammers are working on multiple victims at the same time. Not everyone is going to send money so they increase their odds by carrying on multiple “relationships” at once.A Victim Of Romance Cast
There’s no easy way to deal with the emotional side of things. But take at least some solace in knowing that others have fallen prey to the same tactics. Block Him and Report His Profile
This is one that is usually toughest for those that I work with. You must block him on whatever platform you’re communicating with him on. And even though he may turn around and just set up a new profile, you should still report that profile, whether it’s to Facebook or a dating site.
Many women balk at the thought of this. They either want to figure out a way to bust him or they think if he knows that she’s figured it out, he can just come clean and they can move on with an honest relationship.
I can’t tell you the number of times women have said they confronted him, he admitted it was a scam but then said that she’s different – he was truly in love with her. He’s a changed man because of her.
These are probably some of the most heartbreaking situations as no matter what I say to them or how much proof there is, they go back to the scammer. This only results in having more money taken from them in the future by this man who has supposedly changed his ways.
The way to sanity and to truly move on from this situation is to block him. Cut off any form of communication you have with him.
He is a scammer, pure and simple. And he will not change. He knows exactly what to say to suck you back in but you now have the knowledge now to know it’s a facade. Block him. Realize the Threats Are Empty
In some cases, when the woman confronts the scammer about the scam and he realizes he isn’t going to get any money, he gets angry and starts hurling threats.
This could be anything from he is going to come after you physically, he’s going to hurt your family or he’s going to expose the information you have provided him over the time you’ve been communicating. This could be pictures or even sensitive financial information.
These scammers are generally in another country. In most cases, they’re on another continent. They’re not coming here to hunt you down over not sending them an iTunes card or giving them a $1,000. It would cost them more than that to get here.
What they can do is expose your information, but in every case that I’ve worked with so far, that hasn’t happened.
With all that said, if you truly believe your safety is at risk, contact your local authorities for assistance. Protect Yourself From Further Financial Damage
Have you provided him with bank account information or credit card numbers? Have you given him your social security number or other highly sensitive personal data?
Many, many people have done this. They have provided access to their bank account or, in some cases, even added him to their bank account.
If you have provided any financial or sensitive data, you need to act fast. Once they realize you aren’t going to willingly give them money, they may use the information they have to get it.
Credit Cards – If you have provided credit card data, call the credit card company and let them know an unauthorized person now has access to your credit card information. Ask for the card to be closed and have another card issue.
Pay close attention to your credit card statements and any charges that may appear. Any unauthorized charges can be disputed with the credit card company.
Bank Accounts – If you have added someone to your account or otherwise provided access to your bank account, contact the bank immediately to have the account closed.
Again, be sure to watch your account closely to be sure unauthorized transfers and withdrawals aren’t happening. Be sure to be forthright with the bank as to what happened so they can flag your account. A Victim Of Romance Stories
Social Security Number & Other Sensitive Data – If you have provided this information which could allow someone to steal your identity and begin getting credit in your name, you need to contact the credit bureaus.
There are three major credit reporting agencies – Equifax, TransUnion, and Experian. You can contact each one and have a fraud alert placed on your credit report. If you cannot prove you have been a victim of identity theft (yet), there is a small fee to place the alert.
This essentially locks your credit report and places a fraud alert message on the credit report to alert creditors that additional steps to verify the transaction need to occur.
Creditors will not be able to conduct a full credit check without a PIN that you have been provided by that particular agency.
It’s a pain when you are legitimately trying to open a new credit source (like buying a car), but believe me, trying to unravel everything after identity theft is way worse.File a Report with Authorities
Let me say up front, it is highly unlikely you will ever recover the money that you have sent to the scammer. You can alert the FBI and their internet crimes division about the situation that has occurred. But don’t expect that it will result in getting your hard-earned money back.
In all the time that I’ve been working with people involved with these scams, no one has ever recovered their money. But some do get satisfaction in knowing they have at least reported the crime to the appropriate authorities. Educate Yourself on the Signs of a Scam
By this point, you have firsthand knowledge of how the scam happens but these scammers change their tactics all the time. In fact, quite a few people who reach out to me for help are reaching out multiple times over the course of a few months to ask about different people.
When they are saying and doing all of the right things, promising you this amazing life together as soon as he returns stateside, and sending super attractive pictures, it can be tough to think with your head and not your heart.
Throughout the site, I’ve written about signs of a scam as well as the different types of scams that have been run over the years. Take the time to read the articles as well as share with others.
The only way we will be able to stop these monsters is through education. When it becomes an unprofitable venture, they will have no reason to continue. But every woman who sends them money just emboldens them more and more.
We must get the word out to other people to stop the cycle. It’s the only way.Don’t Try to Contact the Real Soldier
I don’t allow pictures of the soldiers that women have been sent to be posted on my site or on my social media channels. The soldiers in the pictures are just as much of a victim in this whole thing as you are.
They are also just as powerless to stop the scammer as you are. In the beginning, I would try to find the soldier with the goal of telling them about the scam using their images.
This did nothing but cause heartache to know that not only had their pictures been stolen, but they were also being used to scam others.
The one and only benefit is that those who had a public profile (which allowed their pictures to be stolen), they would often change their settings to private.
In some cases, I will still find the real soldier but I no longer do so with the goal of making contact. I do so to prove to the woman who won’t believe otherwise that the person they are talking to is not the man in the picture.
Many times, these soldiers are married with children. For the woman who tells me she must find the real soldier because she’s fallen in love with him, finding the real profile and allowing them to see they have a family already is what needs to happen for closure.
You may believe you have fallen in love with the person in the picture but just remember the real soldier in those pictures doesn’t even know who you are. You have actually fallen in love with the deceitful scammer who is taking advantage of you and your giving heart.
Please note that I am not always successful in locating the real soldier and it is a tedious process to try to track down a real person based on the fake information the scammer has shared. I am not able to honor every request to track down the real soldier.
I hope this information has been helpful to you if you have fallen victim to a scam.
If you are having a tough time dealing with the emotional side of everything that has happened, please reach out to a qualified person in your area, whether that’s a member of the clergy or a therapist.
If you have further questions about how to handle the situation after you’ve been scammed or you’re trying to figure out if you’re the victim of a romance scam involving a soldier, please reach out to me via Facebook Messenger or join our Facebook community.
It all starts out innocently enough. A man reaches out online through private messaging or the dating app you’re on. He seems to say and do all the right things. Everything seems perfect. And you fall for him. Hard.
It happens all the time. There’s rarely a day that goes by when someone isn’t reaching out to me about the amazing person they met online.
In the cases I deal with, the man is impersonating a soldier in the U.S. military. Seeing a very attractive soldier reaching out to establish a connection seems to easily make people trust the situation. After all, who is more honorable than someone who has chosen to serve his country?
Soon enough, he’s requesting monetary funds in one way or another. Sometimes it will start out very innocently such as asking for an iTunes card. Other times, they go straight for the ultimate prize and ask for thousands of dollars to return home from a deployment.
The truth is that in almost all of the cases I’ve worked with, the women had alarm bells going off. Something just didn’t seem quite right. Some stopped the conversation with the “soldier” and reached out to me. Case closed very quickly at that point.
Sadly, in many of the women who have come to me for help, they have already sent thousands of dollars to this man and, in a few cases, tens of thousands of dollars. Samsung odin firmware.
Women have told me they have been left with nothing as they turned their life savings over to this man who was making grand promises of a fairytale life together if she could just help him get back home.
If you’re in that situation or know someone else who is, read on for the action steps to take now.
One quick note before we dive in, it’s not just women who are victims of the scams. There are female scammers and male victims, as well as same-sex scams. There is no discrimination when it comes to scams parting you with your hard-earned money.Realize You Aren’t Alone
When people reach out to me, they’re not only heartbroken but also incredibly disappointed in themselves that they fell victim to a scammer.
I have worked with thousands of people since I wrote my first article on scammers impersonating soldiers and I would venture to guess that’s a small percentage of the ones who are actually out there.
In fact, many of the scammers are working on multiple victims at the same time. Not everyone is going to send money so they increase their odds by carrying on multiple “relationships” at once.
There’s no easy way to deal with the emotional side of things. But take at least some solace in knowing that others have fallen prey to the same tactics. Block Him and Report His Profile
This is one that is usually toughest for those that I work with. You must block him on whatever platform you’re communicating with him on. And even though he may turn around and just set up a new profile, you should still report that profile, whether it’s to Facebook or a dating site.
Many women balk at the thought of this. They either want to figure out a way to bust him or they think if he knows that she’s figured it out, he can just come clean and they can move on with an honest relationship.
I can’t tell you the number of times women have said they confronted him, he admitted it was a scam but then said that she’s different – he was truly in love with her. He’s a changed man because of her.
These are probably some of the most heartbreaking situations as no matter what I say to them or how much proof there is, they go back to the scammer. This only results in having more money taken from them in the future by this man who has supposedly changed his ways.
The way to sanity and to truly move on from this situation is to block him. Cut off any form of communication you have with him.
He is a scammer, pure and simple. And he will not change. He knows exactly what to say to suck you back in but you now have the knowledge now to know it’s a facade. Block him. Realize the Threats Are Empty
In some cases, when the woman confronts the scammer about the scam and he realizes he isn’t going to get any money, he gets angry and starts hurling threats.
This could be anything from he is going to come after you physically, he’s going to hurt your family or he’s going to expose the information you have provided him over the time you’ve been communicating. This could be pictures or even sensitive financial information.
These scammers are generally in another country. In most cases, they’re on another continent. They’re not coming here to hunt you down over not sending them an iTunes card or giving them a $1,000. It would cost them more than that to get here.
What they can do is expose your information, but in every case that I’ve worked with so far, that hasn’t happened.
With all that said, if you truly believe your safety is at risk, contact your local authorities for assistance. Protect Yourself From Further Financial Damage
Have you provided him with bank account information or credit card numbers? Have you given him your social security number or other highly sensitive personal data?
Many, many people have done this. They have provided access to their bank account or, in some cases, even added him to their bank account.
If you have provided any financial or sensitive data, you need to act fast. Once they realize you aren’t going to willingly give them money, they may use the information they have to get it.
Credit Cards – If you have provided credit card data, call the credit card company and let them know an unauthorized person now has access to your credit card information. Ask for the card to be closed and have another card issue.
Pay close attention to your credit card statements and any charges that may appear. Any unauthorized charges can be disputed with the credit card company.
Bank Accounts – If you have added someone to your account or otherwise provided access to your bank account, contact the bank immediately to have the account closed.
Again, be sure to watch your account closely to be sure unauthorized transfers and withdrawals aren’t happening. Be sure to be forthright with the bank as to what happened so they can flag your account.
Social Security Number & Other Sensitive Data – If you have provided this information which could allow someone to steal your identity and begin getting credit in your na
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Romance scams are lucrative and easy to commit. In addition, they often allow a perpetrator to remain anonymous while committing their crimes. While romance scams can happen to anyone, women account for 63% of romance scam victims. The average age for romance fraud victims is around 50 years old. Romance scams will cost you; Do a reverse image search of the person’ profile picture to see if it’s associated with another name or with details that don’t match up – those are signs of a scam. How to Report a Romance Scam. If you paid a romance scammer with a gift card, contact the company that issued the card right away.
*A Victim Of Romance Cast
*A Victim Of Romance Stories
*British victims of ‘romance fraud’ lost over £50million last year, findings from Action Fraud warn as Valentine’s Day approaches. In 2018, the average sum of money lost by a victim of romance fraud came in at £11,145, marking a 27 per cent increase on the year before.
*The Title is Victim Of Romance. Victim Of Romance. The item format is a vinyl 12’. Vinyl records are released in many editions and variations, such as standard edition, re-issue, demonstration demo, not for sale, promotional promo, special edition, limited edition, and many other editions and versions.
*Romance scams target victims, who may be emotionally vulnerable, with companionship and friendship. The goal of the criminal(s) perpetrating the crime is to get the victim to send them funds, which they claim are for a wide range of necessities such as travel, medical care, or a business opportunity.
It all starts out innocently enough. A man reaches out online through private messaging or the dating app you’re on. He seems to say and do all the right things. Everything seems perfect. And you fall for him. Hard.
It happens all the time. There’s rarely a day that goes by when someone isn’t reaching out to me about the amazing person they met online.
In the cases I deal with, the man is impersonating a soldier in the U.S. military. Seeing a very attractive soldier reaching out to establish a connection seems to easily make people trust the situation. After all, who is more honorable than someone who has chosen to serve his country?
Soon enough, he’s requesting monetary funds in one way or another. Sometimes it will start out very innocently such as asking for an iTunes card. Other times, they go straight for the ultimate prize and ask for thousands of dollars to return home from a deployment.
The truth is that in almost all of the cases I’ve worked with, the women had alarm bells going off. Something just didn’t seem quite right. Some stopped the conversation with the “soldier” and reached out to me. Case closed very quickly at that point.
Sadly, in many of the women who have come to me for help, they have already sent thousands of dollars to this man and, in a few cases, tens of thousands of dollars.
Women have told me they have been left with nothing as they turned their life savings over to this man who was making grand promises of a fairytale life together if she could just help him get back home.
If you’re in that situation or know someone else who is, read on for the action steps to take now.
One quick note before we dive in, it’s not just women who are victims of the scams. There are female scammers and male victims, as well as same-sex scams. There is no discrimination when it comes to scams parting you with your hard-earned money.Realize You Aren’t Alone
When people reach out to me, they’re not only heartbroken but also incredibly disappointed in themselves that they fell victim to a scammer.
I have worked with thousands of people since I wrote my first article on scammers impersonating soldiers and I would venture to guess that’s a small percentage of the ones who are actually out there.
In fact, many of the scammers are working on multiple victims at the same time. Not everyone is going to send money so they increase their odds by carrying on multiple “relationships” at once.A Victim Of Romance Cast
There’s no easy way to deal with the emotional side of things. But take at least some solace in knowing that others have fallen prey to the same tactics. Block Him and Report His Profile
This is one that is usually toughest for those that I work with. You must block him on whatever platform you’re communicating with him on. And even though he may turn around and just set up a new profile, you should still report that profile, whether it’s to Facebook or a dating site.
Many women balk at the thought of this. They either want to figure out a way to bust him or they think if he knows that she’s figured it out, he can just come clean and they can move on with an honest relationship.
I can’t tell you the number of times women have said they confronted him, he admitted it was a scam but then said that she’s different – he was truly in love with her. He’s a changed man because of her.
These are probably some of the most heartbreaking situations as no matter what I say to them or how much proof there is, they go back to the scammer. This only results in having more money taken from them in the future by this man who has supposedly changed his ways.
The way to sanity and to truly move on from this situation is to block him. Cut off any form of communication you have with him.
He is a scammer, pure and simple. And he will not change. He knows exactly what to say to suck you back in but you now have the knowledge now to know it’s a facade. Block him. Realize the Threats Are Empty
In some cases, when the woman confronts the scammer about the scam and he realizes he isn’t going to get any money, he gets angry and starts hurling threats.
This could be anything from he is going to come after you physically, he’s going to hurt your family or he’s going to expose the information you have provided him over the time you’ve been communicating. This could be pictures or even sensitive financial information.
These scammers are generally in another country. In most cases, they’re on another continent. They’re not coming here to hunt you down over not sending them an iTunes card or giving them a $1,000. It would cost them more than that to get here.
What they can do is expose your information, but in every case that I’ve worked with so far, that hasn’t happened.
With all that said, if you truly believe your safety is at risk, contact your local authorities for assistance. Protect Yourself From Further Financial Damage
Have you provided him with bank account information or credit card numbers? Have you given him your social security number or other highly sensitive personal data?
Many, many people have done this. They have provided access to their bank account or, in some cases, even added him to their bank account.
If you have provided any financial or sensitive data, you need to act fast. Once they realize you aren’t going to willingly give them money, they may use the information they have to get it.
Credit Cards – If you have provided credit card data, call the credit card company and let them know an unauthorized person now has access to your credit card information. Ask for the card to be closed and have another card issue.
Pay close attention to your credit card statements and any charges that may appear. Any unauthorized charges can be disputed with the credit card company.
Bank Accounts – If you have added someone to your account or otherwise provided access to your bank account, contact the bank immediately to have the account closed.
Again, be sure to watch your account closely to be sure unauthorized transfers and withdrawals aren’t happening. Be sure to be forthright with the bank as to what happened so they can flag your account. A Victim Of Romance Stories
Social Security Number & Other Sensitive Data – If you have provided this information which could allow someone to steal your identity and begin getting credit in your name, you need to contact the credit bureaus.
There are three major credit reporting agencies – Equifax, TransUnion, and Experian. You can contact each one and have a fraud alert placed on your credit report. If you cannot prove you have been a victim of identity theft (yet), there is a small fee to place the alert.
This essentially locks your credit report and places a fraud alert message on the credit report to alert creditors that additional steps to verify the transaction need to occur.
Creditors will not be able to conduct a full credit check without a PIN that you have been provided by that particular agency.
It’s a pain when you are legitimately trying to open a new credit source (like buying a car), but believe me, trying to unravel everything after identity theft is way worse.File a Report with Authorities
Let me say up front, it is highly unlikely you will ever recover the money that you have sent to the scammer. You can alert the FBI and their internet crimes division about the situation that has occurred. But don’t expect that it will result in getting your hard-earned money back.
In all the time that I’ve been working with people involved with these scams, no one has ever recovered their money. But some do get satisfaction in knowing they have at least reported the crime to the appropriate authorities. Educate Yourself on the Signs of a Scam
By this point, you have firsthand knowledge of how the scam happens but these scammers change their tactics all the time. In fact, quite a few people who reach out to me for help are reaching out multiple times over the course of a few months to ask about different people.
When they are saying and doing all of the right things, promising you this amazing life together as soon as he returns stateside, and sending super attractive pictures, it can be tough to think with your head and not your heart.
Throughout the site, I’ve written about signs of a scam as well as the different types of scams that have been run over the years. Take the time to read the articles as well as share with others.
The only way we will be able to stop these monsters is through education. When it becomes an unprofitable venture, they will have no reason to continue. But every woman who sends them money just emboldens them more and more.
We must get the word out to other people to stop the cycle. It’s the only way.Don’t Try to Contact the Real Soldier
I don’t allow pictures of the soldiers that women have been sent to be posted on my site or on my social media channels. The soldiers in the pictures are just as much of a victim in this whole thing as you are.
They are also just as powerless to stop the scammer as you are. In the beginning, I would try to find the soldier with the goal of telling them about the scam using their images.
This did nothing but cause heartache to know that not only had their pictures been stolen, but they were also being used to scam others.
The one and only benefit is that those who had a public profile (which allowed their pictures to be stolen), they would often change their settings to private.
In some cases, I will still find the real soldier but I no longer do so with the goal of making contact. I do so to prove to the woman who won’t believe otherwise that the person they are talking to is not the man in the picture.
Many times, these soldiers are married with children. For the woman who tells me she must find the real soldier because she’s fallen in love with him, finding the real profile and allowing them to see they have a family already is what needs to happen for closure.
You may believe you have fallen in love with the person in the picture but just remember the real soldier in those pictures doesn’t even know who you are. You have actually fallen in love with the deceitful scammer who is taking advantage of you and your giving heart.
Please note that I am not always successful in locating the real soldier and it is a tedious process to try to track down a real person based on the fake information the scammer has shared. I am not able to honor every request to track down the real soldier.
I hope this information has been helpful to you if you have fallen victim to a scam.
If you are having a tough time dealing with the emotional side of everything that has happened, please reach out to a qualified person in your area, whether that’s a member of the clergy or a therapist.
If you have further questions about how to handle the situation after you’ve been scammed or you’re trying to figure out if you’re the victim of a romance scam involving a soldier, please reach out to me via Facebook Messenger or join our Facebook community.
It all starts out innocently enough. A man reaches out online through private messaging or the dating app you’re on. He seems to say and do all the right things. Everything seems perfect. And you fall for him. Hard.
It happens all the time. There’s rarely a day that goes by when someone isn’t reaching out to me about the amazing person they met online.
In the cases I deal with, the man is impersonating a soldier in the U.S. military. Seeing a very attractive soldier reaching out to establish a connection seems to easily make people trust the situation. After all, who is more honorable than someone who has chosen to serve his country?
Soon enough, he’s requesting monetary funds in one way or another. Sometimes it will start out very innocently such as asking for an iTunes card. Other times, they go straight for the ultimate prize and ask for thousands of dollars to return home from a deployment.
The truth is that in almost all of the cases I’ve worked with, the women had alarm bells going off. Something just didn’t seem quite right. Some stopped the conversation with the “soldier” and reached out to me. Case closed very quickly at that point.
Sadly, in many of the women who have come to me for help, they have already sent thousands of dollars to this man and, in a few cases, tens of thousands of dollars. Samsung odin firmware.
Women have told me they have been left with nothing as they turned their life savings over to this man who was making grand promises of a fairytale life together if she could just help him get back home.
If you’re in that situation or know someone else who is, read on for the action steps to take now.
One quick note before we dive in, it’s not just women who are victims of the scams. There are female scammers and male victims, as well as same-sex scams. There is no discrimination when it comes to scams parting you with your hard-earned money.Realize You Aren’t Alone
When people reach out to me, they’re not only heartbroken but also incredibly disappointed in themselves that they fell victim to a scammer.
I have worked with thousands of people since I wrote my first article on scammers impersonating soldiers and I would venture to guess that’s a small percentage of the ones who are actually out there.
In fact, many of the scammers are working on multiple victims at the same time. Not everyone is going to send money so they increase their odds by carrying on multiple “relationships” at once.
There’s no easy way to deal with the emotional side of things. But take at least some solace in knowing that others have fallen prey to the same tactics. Block Him and Report His Profile
This is one that is usually toughest for those that I work with. You must block him on whatever platform you’re communicating with him on. And even though he may turn around and just set up a new profile, you should still report that profile, whether it’s to Facebook or a dating site.
Many women balk at the thought of this. They either want to figure out a way to bust him or they think if he knows that she’s figured it out, he can just come clean and they can move on with an honest relationship.
I can’t tell you the number of times women have said they confronted him, he admitted it was a scam but then said that she’s different – he was truly in love with her. He’s a changed man because of her.
These are probably some of the most heartbreaking situations as no matter what I say to them or how much proof there is, they go back to the scammer. This only results in having more money taken from them in the future by this man who has supposedly changed his ways.
The way to sanity and to truly move on from this situation is to block him. Cut off any form of communication you have with him.
He is a scammer, pure and simple. And he will not change. He knows exactly what to say to suck you back in but you now have the knowledge now to know it’s a facade. Block him. Realize the Threats Are Empty
In some cases, when the woman confronts the scammer about the scam and he realizes he isn’t going to get any money, he gets angry and starts hurling threats.
This could be anything from he is going to come after you physically, he’s going to hurt your family or he’s going to expose the information you have provided him over the time you’ve been communicating. This could be pictures or even sensitive financial information.
These scammers are generally in another country. In most cases, they’re on another continent. They’re not coming here to hunt you down over not sending them an iTunes card or giving them a $1,000. It would cost them more than that to get here.
What they can do is expose your information, but in every case that I’ve worked with so far, that hasn’t happened.
With all that said, if you truly believe your safety is at risk, contact your local authorities for assistance. Protect Yourself From Further Financial Damage
Have you provided him with bank account information or credit card numbers? Have you given him your social security number or other highly sensitive personal data?
Many, many people have done this. They have provided access to their bank account or, in some cases, even added him to their bank account.
If you have provided any financial or sensitive data, you need to act fast. Once they realize you aren’t going to willingly give them money, they may use the information they have to get it.
Credit Cards – If you have provided credit card data, call the credit card company and let them know an unauthorized person now has access to your credit card information. Ask for the card to be closed and have another card issue.
Pay close attention to your credit card statements and any charges that may appear. Any unauthorized charges can be disputed with the credit card company.
Bank Accounts – If you have added someone to your account or otherwise provided access to your bank account, contact the bank immediately to have the account closed.
Again, be sure to watch your account closely to be sure unauthorized transfers and withdrawals aren’t happening. Be sure to be forthright with the bank as to what happened so they can flag your account.
Social Security Number & Other Sensitive Data – If you have provided this information which could allow someone to steal your identity and begin getting credit in your na
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